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46 Make Your Life Count: Being a Man Who is Found Faithful by Zach Clinton. Although the habits and ways of men are often rooted in “what I do” and “what others think of me,” they must also remember where their identities are ultimately found. Zach Clinton, vice president of AACC, host of The Built Different Podcast, and president and host of the Ignite Men’s Impact Weekend, reminds men that their internal drive for greatness cannot overshadow living a life that honors God by proposing three challenges to help them fulfill their mission to serve Him and feel worthy of His call. 50 Broken Bonds: Why Healing Men’s Emotional Wounds Matters for Ending Abuse by Mike Vaughn. Executive Director of Bethesda Workshops, therapist, and author, Mike Vaughn, conveys how the cultural deficits around vulnerability, emotional regulation, and masculinity often hinder critical conversations about men’s roles in the cycle of violence and obscure the deeper reasons behind abuse. Abuse is a complex issue that does not have a single solution, but through God’s grace and the pursuit of meaningful connection with Him and others, healing is not just possible but transformative.

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38 The Manhood Crisis: Debunking the Myth of “Toxic Masculinity” by Chad Robichaux. Former Force Recon Marine, DoD contractor, Afghanistan veteran, author, and founder of the Mighty Oaks Foundation, Chad Robichaux, debunks the characterization of “toxic masculinity” and the notion that men are somehow inherently dangerous. This narrative has created a manhood crisis that is destroying the nuclear family and destabilizing our society. However, a balanced view of manhood can be restored by advocating for masculinity that mirrors Christ’s examples of strength, service, sacrifice, leadership, and courage. 42 Overcoming the Hopelessness that Holds Us Back by Tim Timberlake. Depression and loneliness are real, and they are robbing too many men of the peace, joy, and purpose that God has promised. Tim Timberlake, senior pastor, respected author, and dynamic leader, expresses how essential it is to confront our struggles and pain. He provides four steps men can take to overcome depression and loneliness by accepting God’s invitation to partner with Him in healing.

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8 From the Heart by Tim Clinton 54 The Word Applied by Ted Cunningham 56 Looking Inward by Shannae Anderson 58 Reflections by Gary Moon 62 Shrink Notes by Michael Lyles 66 Law, Ethics & Liability by Jeanneane Maxon 70 Leadership Psyc by Gregory Jantz 74 Research Digest by Fernando Garzon 76 Counsel Quiz

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